You’re not ever going to teach them how to vibrate, nor would you want to change them all to a place of vibrating just like you. Your work is not to fix them; they are not broken. Your work is to choose from among all of that which feels best to you, and fixate on it as long as it gives you pleasure and joy.
And in doing so, you will align with the Energy of your Source, and you will live a magnificent experience. You just have to not let your joy depend upon what anybody else is living, cause that’ll get you every time."
Excerpted from the workshop: Tarrytown, NY on May 08, 2004
*remembers outer space*
Stop hating yourself. Try going one day without saying anything bad about yourself. Try complimenting yourself. Do it again. Buy yourself dinner. Put soft things against your skin. Listen to your favorite songs. Eat ice cream. Eat ice cream naked. You have to spend the rest of your life with you. You’re all you’ve got. Be kind, start loving yourself.
You have to decide that the way things currently are and how you’re currently feeling are not how you want to feel and you decide to change it, one thought at a time.
Right now - you’re allowing yourself to be anxious. You’re allowing your mind to focus on someone who is in your past and has moved on.
So instead of allowing your brain to choose bad subjects and run wild with them, take control of your mind and choose what you’re going to think about. Choose thoughts that you prefer, do things you enjoy doing.
Right now - you’re allowing thoughts and feelings you don’t prefer to dictate your life.
When you get tired enough of this - you’ll take control and choose your thoughts which will change how you feel.